How do I know if he did cheat?

Question by jms62394: How do I know if he did cheat?
I have been dating my bf for almost 2 yrs. He went through a 6 month period where he drank and did cocaine. I didnt know about it until he checked himself into a rehab. His x gf has told me that during that time, he cheated on me. She said she gave him a BJ. Now, he swears that never happened and said even if he was on that, he would remember. Part of me wants to believe her, but part of me feels like shes being jealous and vengeful. He has been honest with me about so many other hurtful things, I dont see why he would lie. He’s doing fantastic now and seems to be really turning his life around for the better. I love him lots and would marry him in a heartbeat if he had this addiction under control. I know its going to be a lifelong disease, but is it worth a shot? She says he cheated with others as well but wont tell me anything about it. She has lied in the past and would have been cheating on her husband if what she says is true….so what do I do?

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Answer by no name
listen to him it sounds like she wants to split you two up so that she can have him

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