Would this just be asking for another arguement?

Question by Stevi Ann: Would this just be asking for another arguement?
SORRY SO LONG. I APPRECIATE ALL OPINIONS!

My boyfriend and I are planning on moving BACK in together, this weekend. The only thing we ever fight about, is how I don’t trust him because of lies I was told in the first few months of our relationship. It is never about him cheating or anything. I have total trust there. But I don’t trust him to tell me if he relapses. He was a heavy heroin user, he also abused methadone and promethazine. Lately, he has been acting sneaky. Also has been recieving many calls from old friends, who currently are still heavy into drugs. We had a huge fight last night, when I was leaving for work because an old friend/use called him on his BRAND NEW cell phone number..? Anyway, that was at about 10:00pm, at midnight, he was sleeping. And is STILL SLEEPING! 24 HOURS LATER!! This is a huuuuge sign to me that he is using. I asked him to take a drug test for me about a month ago, but he flat out refused. We fought, and I didn’t bring it up again. No matter the outcome, I will stay with him, I just need to know whats going on. I want to ask him again tomorrow to take a test. I really need some sort of answer. If he refuses, I might end our relationship. It’s so hard, on the heart, to deal with. I don’t know. I know I have every reason not to trust him, and I do not feel in the wrong for that. But is it wrong to ask him again, to take a test, because “I need an answer.”

Thank you for taking the time to read this!! And I am posting this in marriage and divorce because, we are in a serious relationship 😉

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