why do they hate to hear the truth but still don’t walk away?

Question by Gena r: why do they hate to hear the truth but still don’t walk away?
the guy i was in love with: alcoholic, non committal, mean, unremorseful, troubled and a very smart and interesting fellow. plus he was beautiful. but his problems made him so ugly and unmanageable.
he wanted to keep me on a string and use me while looking for other girls to be in a real relationship with.
nice.
i have told him many times
“you are a drunk, get help”
“the things you want may never come because you are still the same, no matter how many nice girls you find, you will still be unable to show real love. get help”
“you are a sociopath and you treat people like crap. get help”
“i loved you and would have dealt with whatever if you just would stop lying all the time and treat me like a human being. get help”
etc.
he gets so mad and tells me he hates me, then he comes back and tells me all his problems, wanting to have me in his life, telling me i’m the best person he’s ever known.
i loved him, but he hurts me alot!!!!
i am in therapy and have shut the door completely.
but i still wonder, why, after all these years that i have hit him with the hard facts he still secretly loves me?? he had plenty of opportunities to walk away forever and he didn’t.
do people need to hear the truth? are they drawn to it?
i have nothing more to say to him ever, but i wonder if he will ever take it to heart??

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