Why do I want to be with a girl, but can’t bring myself to actually committing?

Question by Jacob L: Why do I want to be with a girl, but can’t bring myself to actually committing?
i’m sixteen, i’ve been recently getting into alot of trouble with all kinds of things with my parents and the cops. Drugs, alcohol, skipping school…. you name it, and i’ve done it and if not i’m sure it’ll be accomplished soon. The only reason I can think of that i’m doing all this and hurting all these people around me is because i’m lonely ( as in searching for the right girl but can’t find her lonely). I really don’t know what to do any more… This loneliness is messing me up…. It’s not like my parents didn’t raise me well or anything like that. They really are great parents, I hate them for it right now but they are doing the right thing. They want to send me to something on the lines of a rehabilitation center, but I really don’t want to do that. I think a girl in my life that I truely love is what would help me.. Please help me out.

Best answer:

Answer by fmmerritt
If you cant be good on your own then your not gonna be any good in a relationship..You need to be able to handle life and deal with things on your own or the first time you have your heart broken could really mess you up..And it will happen,it happens to everyone sometime.I think you need to work on yourself before you add someone else in the equation..

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