When Should I Rat Out My Dad For Cheating On My Mom?

Published October 27, 2010

Question by kr_811: When Should I Rat Out My Dad For Cheating On My Mom?
I’m a 19 year old guy going to a university in my hometown. My relationship with my parents (especially with my dad) has been sweet and sour. My parents are strict “Christians”. My parents have been on my back about getting a job and I currently don’t have a job but I’m searching for one and I’m not getting any luck with that. I get in trouble for small things from time to time but I don’t do anything that bad. I don’t even drink, smoke or had sex……yet. However, I get threatened many times they’ll kick me out of the house. Which is bulls**t. For a few years my dad has been smoking marijuana “secretly”(he thinks I don’t notice the smell of pot) to help “stress” but tells me and his Sunday school students that pot is bad and for idiots, which makes him a total hypocrite. Recently, I caught my dad using sex/prostitution sites such as Adult Friend Finder, Sex Search and The Red Book, on my laptop and on his and he has randomly going out at night from time to time. My dad is incredibly stupid when i comes to using computers he doesn’t erase his history sometimes after visiting sex sites, even on my laptop. And when he’s on some whore site with a webcam feature, he leaves the volume on even when I’m in the same room. I don’t know if he’s that stupid or thinks I’m stupid. I have lost faith in Christianity completely because of this and some other factors that I didn’t discuss. In my family I can tolerate my mother much more but my dad has been getting on my nerve a lot lately. When Should I Rat Out My Dad For Cheating On My Mom? Because if I do, I’m sure going to be thrown out the house and possibly break up my family. Please help me, thanks.
P.S. I have a 6 year old little brother in kindergarten, so this a very hard decision.
The sites he’s going to are sex hookup sites not exactly porn.

Best answer:

Answer by ian_sheng
Judging by your current circumstance, I guess the answer is NEVER.

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