What are your thoughts? Mature people only please !?

Question by Christine: What are your thoughts? Mature people only please !?
My ex & I were together for a year (got matching red heart tattoos too). The first month was great (of course, the honeymoon stage). Shortly after he showed his true colors. I soon realized that he is an alcoholic, daily Marijuana smoker, and even used “other” drugs at times (not me at all. I drink socially occassionaly). He became extremely verbally abusive. Mostly when he was drunk, but at times even when he wasn’t. Did I mention he is 28, lives with his parents, has no car, and no job? Also, his baby mama cheated on him, and had him thrown in jail for a month (but all charges were dropped). His excuse for not working is that he is “raising his 4 year old son.” So, we did the on & off thing for a year going a few days here & there not talking (because I knew I didn’t deserve to be treated so badly), and then one of us would text, and we’d end up in the same boat all over again. Last time we talked, I told him to have a nice night, and that it was better if we didn’t hang out because I needed to get over him. He replied with “you’re trippn.” It’s been 1 month, and I haven’t heard from him at all. I’ve tried texting, and he does not reply (yes, he has the same number). No, I’m not an idiot, I just fell for the wrong guy, (and I totally fell in love with his son). All I ever did was be the loving girlfriend who was supportive, totally fun, nice, respectful, hardworking, etc, and he treated me horribly. I paid for everything, we used my car to go everywhere, and he’d talk sh** to me for having to get up at 6am to go to work. So why am I so hurt, and wanting closure from him?

I text him Saturday night, and 10 minutes later a blocked number called my cell phone, and hung up after 2 rings (no one has my new #). He is the only person who used to block his #, and call me when he’d start a fight. 20 minutes later I text him again, and right after I got another blocked number. Think it was him? Just playing head games?

Thanks for reading, and I really appreciate any & all opinions.

Best answer:

Answer by Lisa
You know what you need to do. You say that you fell in love with the wrong guy. Ok, I understand that. But, that means that you need to totally separate yourself from this guy. There is no reason for you to spend any time on this guy. You should remove anything in your life that reminds you of him. You need to focus on building a life that it totally free of him.

It will probably take you several tries to get away from him. There is a chance that you will be able to do it though. Just DON”T GET PREGNANT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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