was i wrong to let him go?

Question by bubu360: was i wrong to let him go?
i have been with my guy for 11 years. he has always struggled with drugs and drinking. i have always tried to help him overcome these problems. the last time he went on a binge i let him know i wouldnt tolerate it anymore. that was my finale ultimatum.i always knew he smoked way too much pot and drank too much beer and as much as this bugged me and made me sad i thought there would come a time when he would grow up. well we bought a house and things didnt change. i got pregnant and things were supposed to change but didnt.shortly after our house was forclosed on he finally let me budget the money. i started noticing that even after i took into consideration all the po t and beer being consumed there was money that should have been there that wasnt. things got strange. he wouldnt answer the phone at work.if he did his voice didnt sound right.he was home less and less. sometimes he would act all hyped up wich i thought might be because he was diagnosed as having bipolar wich was never treated. last week after coming home late from work and acting suspiciosly hyped up, i went through his wallet and found a big bag of cocaine! i told him that it was over.he is now staying at his parents and thankfully going through treatment. my thing is that he wants to be with me and i know he is doing a great thing by being in treatment but i feel so all done.its not that i dont love him its that i feel so manipulated. i dont trust him.idont even know whatelse he has done that i havnt found out about.my relationship started with him when i was 18 and we were good friends before that.he is a really wonderful person in lots of ways other than the addiction issues. i cant help but feel guilty because i know how hard it must be for him losing me and being in recovery all at the same time but i feel like i cant take this on.am i doing a bad thing by leaving him?

Best answer:

Answer by EDDIE
no

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