This is the third time I post this question…all the answers I got are so dumb!! (Short) BPD?

Question by Parnavue: This is the third time I post this question…all the answers I got are so dumb!! (Short) BPD?
I dated this girl for 1 year and half, we have been on and off. She was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder…. This girl is very sweet, and so naive (She trusts everyone except the people who love her) I have witnessed so many things with her, she beat me up so many times, and I never touched her. Physical abuse, premscuity, Constant and continuous lies about everything, everthing, everything. I love her so much, and I dont want her to get hurt. She is on hardcore drugs, trashiest friends ever, they even beat her sometimes, she hooks up with like 5 guys at the same time. She basically have a gangster minset, and she comes from a very good christian family, they dont have any financial problems, and her parents are really nice people and they would do anything to help her out. and I tried telling her that all those people she is hanging out with are losers. If I am nice to her she would just smile and leave with another guy for days, if I tell her to leave me alone, man, she flips out, and be “I hate you, dont leave me” (typical BPD). Yesterday for example she wanted to talk, and she started bringing p the relationship issues, and then she attacked me (I got scars, bite marks, bruises, and she burned me with her ciggarette) and she was telling me “I got a boyfriend, I dont give a fuck about you”!! I really dont care, I mean yes, she is playing all those sick jelousy games but I really care about her “Probably as a little sister who has so many emotional problems.” She was also telling me you either love me or hate me “again typical BPD”. Her dad called the cops when he saw her attacking me and she is now in jail. the thing is, is that she is a little one, she is 5.2, and am 6.3 but I dont wanna hit her, its disrespectful. Any advise?!!

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I think you need to tell the police that she has these mental health problems. I dont know the law in USA or where you are from, but in the UK anyone with Mental helath illness is not allowed to be interviewed without a representative with them. Also if you tell them she has a mental health issue they might get her sectioned rather then in jail, and get her treated. That or they will get a psych report on her before she is sentenced or trialed etc.
You can not help her, you cant save her from herself unless she wants to be saved. You cant control her actions. dont blame yourself.
This is all you can do to help her. She may even have other mental health problem like bipolar. As you say she runs off with other men and is promiscuous, this is likely in bipolar.
I really think that is all you can do. You cannot force her to get help, but a court can!! You need to use this situation as an opportunity to get her help.

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