This is my situation. What would you do|?

Question by Brat: This is my situation. What would you do|?
OK. I posted a question about my daughter making a comment that her dad touched her. I also added the information that I suspected he had done something to our son when he was little. My son started having issues with diaper time at 9 months old screaming, and started having night terrors. This was an on and off thing until he was about 3 years old. When he learned how to talk then he would scream NO Daddy, during his night terrors.
I found out today that my ex’s brother took the kids to a lady’s house that I know for a fact has used drugs in the past and she also sold drugs. (Crack Cocaine to be exact) He and I made a deal that the kids would not go over there under any circumstances. They went there today. If she gets raided with my kids over there I will have to fight to prove that I did not know they were over there. I know I can’t control his parenting time but is there something I can do?
I asked her if anyone has touched her there and she said her dad has. I then called her doctor and they checked her out. They said they cant prove he hasn’t touched her in a bad way but he hasn’t caused trauma to the area. They advised me not to ask questions either and I dont.
I’ve tried calling the cops on him. They told me that they can’t help me. I have to have proof.

Best answer:

Answer by mamadeuce
You can take your children to a child psychologist to see if there is something to be worried about and to help them cope. You should report the father to Child Services and have it on record that you requested that he not take the children to that house. Document everything that ever happens.

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