The Best Way to Reconnect With Your Ex Boyfriend – Let Him Chase You and Use Your Past History

The Best Way to Reconnect With Your Ex Boyfriend – Let Him Chase You and Use Your Past History

After a breakup, trying to reconnect with your ex boyfriend might seem impossible. He will not talk to you or answer any of your emails or text messages. In the first place if it has been only a short time since the breakup, you should not be trying to contact him anyhow. If he did take one of your phone calls, it would most likely end in an all out argument and the breakup would start all over again. He is still too angry and your emotions are running at an all time high. Any attempt to talk sense to each other would be like throwing gasoline on a fire.

The best thing you can do if you expect to get him back and have a future with him, is to make yourself scarce. Drop out of sight and have no contact with him at all. Take the time to get your emotions in check and your self confidence back. Spend more time with you family. You may have been neglecting them during the relationship and they will be glad to see you. You can lean on them and let their love help you get back your self confidence. You will become calmer and start to think more clearly. When that happens, you can begin to formulate a plan to get your ex back.

You made him fall in love with you once and you can do it again, and this time you have an advantage. You have your past history with him to help you. You know his likes and his dislikes and you can use these to your attract him again. But do not do anything until at least a month has passed since the breakup. In that length of time, things will look much differently. The heated words that were spoken will begin to fade and your ex boyfriend will have had time to experience his life without you. If you have done what you should have and not had contact with him, he will wonder why you are not trying to get him back. He will start thinking about the good things you did for him and he will begin to miss you.

At this point, it will be time to show him why he fell in love with you in the first place. Get dressed in his favorite outfit and wear your hair the way he likes it. Put on his favorite scent, get some friends together and go out on the town. Stop by the places he usually hangs out and let him get a good look at you. Do not engage in conversation and do not hang around. Just make sure he sees you and leave. Seeing you again looking so desirable will make him remember why he fell in love with you and he will regret the breakup. Now, it will be your ex boyfriend that wants to reconnect with you.