The #1 Secret of Success That Almost Everyone Ignores

Published May 20, 2010

Step one of giving yourself permission to succeed is find your loving mirrors and safe havens, so this is where we just find them. Letâs talk for a second about loving mirrors and safe havens. If you heard my preview call or youâve taken classes with me before, I want to go over this. If youâve never taken this class with me this may be new information, but itâll be enough review that I want you to get solid with this.

This is the foundational step! You cannot build without a foundation. You can build it on sand, but it wonât be there for long. This is the foundation, we canât go anywhere without this. When we look at a loving mirror, what does that mean? It is a person who can give you unconditional support. That is the definition of a loving mirror; a loving mirror is a person who can give you unconditional support.

I want to talk in more depth about this loving mirror and then weâre going to talk about safe haven, which is a business version of a loving mirror, and I hope youâre writing all this down. The loving mirror gives you unconditional support, now that does that mean that they just say anything you do is, everything you do they love, and everything you do is wonderful? I hope not, because Iâve got to tell you not everything I do is wonderful, not everything I do is right, not everything I do is good enough.

It just isnât. We do not want a yes man or woman as a loving mirror, I know that might sound weird and you might go but, but then they do not love me, but then, theyâre not, unconditionally supporting me. Letâs just take an example, letâs say I was doing drugs. I started doing cocaine or meth; I became a meth addict or something like that, something crazy like just doing stupid, stupid, dumb things.

Ripping people off, lying, not having integrity, being dishonest. Now should my loving mirror come up and say on no youâre doing so great, thatâs awesome, and youâre doing great! If they then theyâre not much of a friend are they and theyâre not a loving mirror. A true loving mirror is someone who kicks you in the pants and goes, what do you think youâre doing? Youâre not, thatâs not you, what the heck is that? Get your head out of your, you know what!

Are you with me on this? This is what we want from a loving mirror. We need a loving drill sergeant. My friend Scott is a great example of that, I mean he and I go at it, sometimes weâre just going right at it, the veins are bulging and weâre like no itâs like this, no itâs like this, and but you know, at the end we go okay and then we come out both stronger from that.

On the night of October 20, 1997, a 30-year-old religious studies major named Noah St. John had an epiphany that changed his life. While attending a seminar, he suddenly realized the real, hidden reason so many smart, talented, motivated people stop themselves from success – and saw it had nothing to do with goal-setting, “motivation” or anything being taught in traditional success literature. That very night, with no formal education in business, Noah decided to form a company to teach people around the world the simple steps that remove the hidden barriers to success. Find out more at http://www.successclinic.com.

The #1 Secret of Success That Almost Everyone Ignores

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