Stressed beyond recognition???
Question by TwoGirlsSoFar: Stressed beyond recognition???
I admit it, I’ve made some terrible decisions before. I was with one guy who was abusive and just plain awful. He mooched off of me, didn’t pay bills, wouldn’t take care of his own children, and used his entire paycheck to buy meth. I stopped seeing him quite a while ago.
Yesterday, out of nowhere, my beau (and quite possibly the greatest guy I’ve ever met in my whole life) got a message from the ex stating that he (the ex) was the real father of the baby and for my beau to “be a man” and step down.
I thought this guy was out of my life, but as soon as it feels I’m getting my life on track, he pops in out of the blue. While I was with him, he isolated me from my friends and family, and I’m barely getting those relationships back.
I know this baby could not possibly be the ex’s. To be honest it just pisses me off. My beau, however, seemed to blow it off, but he’s not verbal. I asked him to talk to me about it, but he said there’s nothing to say.
How would anyone else deal with this?
DNA won’t exactly be necessary. Whereas my ex and I are both white, my darling man is black.
Think that shocker will get him to leave us alone?
I know the best thing is to drop it and not let it get to me, but I’m not due until the end of June.
Best answer:
Answer by Darcy34
Ignore your ex. If push comes to shove, have a dna test done and then there won’t be any question on his part about the paternity of your baby. Good luck.
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