Sister-in-law Major issues!!!?
Question by Laslos k: Sister-in-law Major issues!!!?
My 24 year old sister in law is in a bit of a spot. She is in an abusive relationship, dropped out of school in the 9th grade, her sexually abusive father died because he drove drunk into a creek bed and burned to death, she has mental issues because of that and long term use of drugs(meth, coke, extacy, etc…), lives in a poor as crap household in the middle of nowhere that HARDLY qualifies for a house with, as of today, her ex boyfriend, bf’s mom, and a 7 year old extremely autistic child …well the boyfriend apparently hit her back in October and she told no one…so she calls me up because today he apparently told her “shut up before I slap your smart mouth.”, her prior relationship was more abusive than this one, MIGHT I also mention that her father was the one to introduce her to doing meth…
In the past we tried her moving in and trying to find a job…DOES NOT WORK!!! trust me. She needs help… She needs somewhere where she can get the mental treatment she needs while also getting her GED and/or vocational training. I seem only able to find the rehab’s and the vocational places like Gary job corp… I think for her it may need to be girls only at least for a bit…she messed up the last time living with us by having a ton of guy over all the time and who knows what happened…I know it did with at least one. So anyhow…if, as I hope, you are reading this with a perfect answer…PLEASE let me know!! I thank you in advance!
If it’s needed this is in Central Texas…
thanks for all the answers so quick!!!
I should have clarified…but the 7 year old autistic child is not my sister-in-law’s, He is the bf’s brother…so he belongs to his mom… I just don’t get how they can live in such squander … I mean they live in a house that is nothing….holes in the floor, no food, etc…sad!
Best answer:
Answer by bopdaddy
some people are beyond help until they see their need so there is nothing you can do without her cooperation
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