Should I move back in with my husband who is still in recovery?

Question by mailersky: Should I move back in with my husband who is still in recovery?
My husband has used meth off and on for 4-5 years but used regularly for the past 6mo – 1 yr.. I did not know he was using until recently. Due to his abusive behavior, his anger issues and the fact that I found out he was using I moved back to my parents with our six month old son. I am 32 we have been together 7 yrs. He entered himself into an outpatient treatment program through our hospital and has been clean about 40 days. I am getting therapy and attending codependency anonymous meetings. He wants me and our son to move back home. He says I can drug test him every day. How does one know when it is right to live together again ? I think it is too early but he is desperate to be with his son and says it will help him to have his wife with him while he recovers. What do married couples normally do in this type of situation ?

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Answer by alyssa
it might be a little early, i suggest taking small steps. Go over there with you son for a weekend. Wait a little longer though. But if he says that you can drug test him everyday i think he truely loves you and wants you, and is focused on fixing his problem.

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