Should i leave my fiance cause of his drug problem?

Question by ashlee78880: Should i leave my fiance cause of his drug problem?
i am a 24 y/o mother of a 4 y/o beautiful boy. my fiance and i used to have a bad drug problem. (meth) when i found out i was preg i stopped everything n he slowed down. after my son was born i started messing with the stuff again. the guilt overwhelmed me so i left my man and moved to a different town to change my life for my son. my man didnt want the help, but came around about a month later n said he wanted to change too. so he moved with me where i was. it was a hard detox but we did it! we bought a home in this new town where we lived so happy for 3 years. but recently we had to move back because of the lack of work where we were. my man went to our home town first and worked durring the week n came home on the weekends. we did this about 3 months until we found a place and i moved back home with him. the whole time he was working he started using again. i feel bad cause he works for his family co and his brither and bro n law work with him and are using so i know he had alot of temptation. now i have been living here with him 3 weeks and i am misserable. this drug was a weekness for me and i dont want to be around it.i told him to stop or he would wake up without a family. today i moved in with my mom after a huge fight me and my man had over the drugs. i feel like i helped him once n he decided to go back. chose the drug over his family. i dont want him to drag me back into that lifestyle. i cant, im a better mother than that. i cant be his rock again when i have the same weakness. i feel like i have to leave for the better of myself and my son. i love him but have lost all respect. have i made the right decision? I am just trying to be the best me i can be for my son. i have to stay away from that stuf so im not tempted myself, how can i do that if he is using. i found him a better job away from his family so he wouldnt be around users at work and he didnt even go apply. he wld rather work for the family co. please help me.. my heart feels bad but my brain is proud of me for doing what i beleive is right. what do you think?

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Answer by Logan W
You took so many steps in the right direction – I’m sorry to hear that life threw you a curve.
You need to move again. You need to get him away from the temptation. But ask him this first – does he love you and your baby or the meth more? Be prepared for his answer either way. If he wants to throw his life away, then move out and move on! It will be hard but better for you in the long run. But if he does want to change, you can take him with you and go about fixing your life up. He was sober for 3 years – he can be sober again, IF he wants it AND with your help and support.
Good luck and I hope things work out.

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