Should I forgive her???!!!?
Question by Parnavue: Should I forgive her???!!!?
I dated this girl for 1 year and half, we have been on and off. She was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder…. This girl is very sweet, and so naive (She trusts everyone except the people who love her) I have witnessed so many things with her, she beat me up so many times, and I never touched her. Physical abuse, premscuity, Constant and continuous lies about everything, everthing, everything. I love her so much, and I dont want her to get hurt. She is on hardcore drugs, trashiest friends ever, they even beat her sometimes, she hooks up with like 5 guys at the same time. She basically have a gangster minset, and she comes from a very good christian family, they dont have any financial problems, and her parents are really nice people and they would do anything to help her out. and I tried telling her that all those people she is hanging out with are losers. If I am nice to her she would just smile and leave with another guy for days, if I tell her to leave me alone, man, she flips out, and be “I hate you, dont leave me” (typical BPD). last monday for example she wanted to talk, and she started bringing p the relationship issues, and then she attacked me (I got scars, bite marks, bruises, and she burned me with her ciggarette) and she was telling me “I got a boyfriend, I dont give a **** about you”!! I really dont care, I mean yes, she is playing all those sick jelousy games but I really care about her “Probably as a little sister who has so many emotional problems.” She was also telling me you either love me or hate me “again typical BPD”. Her dad called the cops when he saw her attacking me and she got out of jail yesterday, and since then i dont know if she is going to rehab or not. the thing is, is that she is a little one, she is 5.2, and am 6.3 but I dont wanna hit her, its disrespectful. Any advise?!! The judge told her not to have any contact with me although i didnt press charges..
But you know, although she didnt contact me at all, and although when I think about it, I am like ” I dont that **** in my life”, I do miss her so much, and there is this thing in the back of my head that keeps telling me that she is coming back, but I know that I am just dreaming.
What hurts the most is that she ran out with those guys and she never ggave a **** about me?
Best answer:
Answer by sonni c
Obviously she has emotional problems so you need to decide whether you want to deal with this forever or somehow get her to seek help.
If she won’t get help you should let her go.
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