Should I cut off all ties with relationship decribed below? How can I do it nicely?

Question by Weird Boy: Should I cut off all ties with relationship decribed below? How can I do it nicely?
I became involved some how with a woman that has Borderline Personality Disorder (medically documented) and Crack Cocaine Problem. She is on Disability (SSI) because of it. She has two children that are very hyperactive ages five and ten. She is the bottomless pit when it comes to need and she has at least one crisis daily. At first she seemed like a very nice person that wanted to get her life back in order. I took her and her children places like picnics and the beach. We did family activities and dinned out (all at my expense because she lacked disposable income). At first it seemed to go very well but within a couple of weeks she had her first crisis (that I saw). She took off when her Niece was over and blew her rent money on a Crack Cocaine over night binge.
She begged me not to break it off and I got her in a Psychiatrist to get medication. The problem seemed to get more frequent. Her moods here so erratic one minutes she was happy the next she would explode. She got mad at her children and smashed a Play Station that the church bought for her kids then asked…Can you buy another one… She gave me a key to her place as she unhooked her door bell often..Later I found out frequently people came over for certain things that she did to get money for habit. I gave her card for her birthday with a gift certificate for clothing as well as took her and her children out for her birthday dinner. Three days later she got upset with me and returned the card with a hate letter written on it. I confronted her and told her how bad that hurt me she couldn’t understand why. The infidelity, the lies, the head games I back off and she calls twenty times a day and leaves messages ranging from her crying and saying she loves me to she hates me and vows to b

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Answer by entidtil
She needs counseling but she doesn’t need any further enabling. For her sake and for her childrens sake, I would see if she ands her children could be helped by reporting her to the social services people.

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