Sex for the first time?

Question by Erin Helia: Sex for the first time?
So me and my boyfriend have been together since July, we both feel completely comfortable with each other and we think it’s time. We have everything set up, prepared, just wondering since I can’t find the right answer for this. Everyone here has said the first time is really painful, but no one has said this from a masochistic point of view. I enjoy pain, as crazy as it sounds, I hurt myself because if I don’t, I almost go into a withdrawal (burning, cutting, whipping, biting myself ect), so would this pain be the same type and enjoyable? Or is it something completely different and should I be ready to feel “pain” for the first time in a while.

My boyfriend is scared of hurting me, and I keep telling him thats stupid and I’m the last person in the world he should be scared of hurting. Though I thought I should ask to make sure. Oh and I don’t need help with this, I have help in real life where I am explaining my feeling about the enjoyment of pain, this question is simply to ask what type of pain it is.
I just turned 16 last month and I’m pretty sure about this, so I don’t need talking out of it. I’m not religious, and he does mean a lot to me right now.
As for pain tolerance, I’m fine with closing a hair straighter on my arm for an example, it hardly makes me cringe anymore. But thanks guys for sharing, that should be helpful to know 🙂

Best answer:

Answer by Noka
It’s not the same kind of pain that you’ve experienced. Honestly there’s really nothing like it because your sex organs are so incredibly sensitive. It’s not terrible pain, it just burns a little I suppose. You’ll probably like the feeling while you two are doing it because it’s mixed with pleasure. Afterward it’s just pain. Like I said before though, it’s not terrible at all.

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