Serious question and I don’t need judgment because you don’t know the whole story.?

Question by youwouldlovetoknowhuh?: Serious question and I don’t need judgment because you don’t know the whole story.?
I’ve been divorced for 4 years. Long story short, she accused me of abuse even though I say it was self defense and because of the “abuse” she got a restraining order against me and I wasn’t able to see my daughter anymore so after two years I signed away rights and now my ex’s new husband has adopted my daughter.
Well I want to see my daughter again because I feel like she cheated me out of being a dad and I found out that because I have had cancer I can’t have anymore kids.
My mom suggested that maybe we get a friend to file a CPS report against them saying he molested my daughter or something so that I can get a lawyer and have reason to fight for my rights back.
Would this work? If we get caught how much trouble will we be in?
I feel like even if it is a false report that it would be fair because she claimed I abused her when I didn’t so why not let her taste her own medicine.
I asked my ex wife nicely if I could see my daughter and she said no because I haven’t seen my daughter since she was six months old and my daughter doesn’t know me and they live in another state and it would be too much confusion for my daughter and she doesn’t believe me that i’m different than i used to be and i don’t drink or do drugs anymore but it is true because i did quit

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Answer by C on the L
Okay, here’s the thing. In some states, filing a false report gets you very little if you get caught. In others, you are in deep jeopardy. Either way, it would be pointless. Legally you signed away your parental rights. For whatever reason, you can’t go back. if you file the report, your daughter could be removed to a foster or group home. Unlikely though. More importantly, consider how being in the system will affect your daughter. I assure you, she will not benefit from it. Even if the allegation were true, she would be deeply scarred by the experience. At this date, even in the face of true offenses, the cure is sometimes, more often than not, worse than the sickness. Not that nothing should be done mind you, but I’m digressing.

Do not, for your sake as well as the safety of your daughter, file a false charge. It will bite you. You might try to get an attorney to help you overturn the previous cases, but the adoption is unlikely to be vacated. Best case scenario is that you might get visitation. The cost is likely to be astronomical though.

Good luck, and don’t do anything stupid. It was smart to ask.

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