Reverse Psychology or sickness?
Question by Mommy ♥’s her boys!: Reverse Psychology or sickness?
In 8 yrs, my husband has cheated on me regularly until about 1 yr ago. He now has a cocaine addiction and will ocasionally leave and not come home until the next day. he has two kids with another girl (who he had cheated on me with) We have been married 4 months now, have 2 sons. I have stuck by him over these years. I did leave him for a year when I found out the girl was pregnant but we got back together eventually. BUT through all this I HAVE NEVER cheated or anything of the sort, he has messed with too many girls to count and I have slept with 6 in my lifetime ( I am 24 he is 26). The worse thing I have done that he calls me a ho for is texting a guy i use to talk to…but it wasnt even anything sexual). These past 2 weekends he has went out and did the coke. He will start fights with me saying he cant trust me and who knows what i do when i dont answer my phone and I am a closet ho and so on. It baffles me b.c I have never given him reason to treat me like this (i dont think)
i feel he does it to take the guilt off of him but he freaks out and says I just have a guilty concious and so on. Its to the point that he will fight with me for days and call me names and I cry and he will say Im crying b.c i feel bad for being a ho. WHY WHY WHY does he do this to me? I feel liek he wants to bring me down. Do i leave him for this? Is he the one i shouldnt trust? He SWEARS its me. I am so sick of it I want to puke sometimes. Will he ever change, is this a sickness? I desperately need ur help.
Best answer:
Answer by beege4203
He treats you like this because you allow him to. My question back to you is WHY??? You have children, you have a brain, you have a heart, you need to have a backbone. He isn’t going to change, you have to. Pack your bags sweetie, take the kids and don’t be there when he shows up next time. If you don’t have the money, there are women’s shelters that can provide a roof over your heads, food for your belly, and an education and job offers to get you moving in the right direction. Do you really want your children around a stoned junkie that whores around? Do you really want to catch some disease from this man who dips his stick into any well?
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