Real Shrinks, What is this?

Question by aqua99: Real Shrinks, What is this?
This person must constantly talk every minute they are awake. Often stays up, 2,3,4 days in row. Constantly needs to interact, and disrupt thoughts,projects constantly,you are this, you think this, you feel this. Veers between effusive stick to you like glue, get under your skin overfriendlyness, to abuse, degradation and veiled threats.Must play tv, music,or thump ground loudly if not talking.Does nothing day after day to work to improve situation, or solve their own problems, but at night starts demanding what you are going to DO to “help” him, and how you are uncaring, hateful person etc. Goes from complete happy joke a minute, no problems, everything is great, don’t worry about anything, does not want to face, or take self-responsibility of their situation, and what they need to do. “It’s not a problem, it’s none of your business” To extreme rants on how you are to blame and must fix things or solve them, or respond, “you want me dead, or I won’t be around by then anyways.” Wholly financially supported by family members that has guilt tripped.If any demands are placed, either completely ignores wishes of others, or reacts with rage, insult, revenge orientated behavior,grude holding, or suicidal threats, or demands “WHAT are YOU going to do for ME!!” Mostly, the complete need for some kind of boundary disruption, projection,and transference,extremely sticky like a zombie that needs to constantly clamp on your brain, and feed off some interaction,and with his voice constantly telling you what to think feel, what your opinion of yourself is, very controlling.If you leave the room.will talk louder, or follow, if leave house, will actually stand behind car,etc. Also drinks alcohol everyday, and extorts money, you owe me this, you owe me this,is mostly easier to give in, because it is relentless, and accusing sessions can last upward of 12 hours, and be disrupting of all other activities.Seems to think everybody owes him a living, and will hold your, time, attention, energy, mental and emotional well being hostage, until he gets what he wants, if not money, agreement that everybody else is wrong, and to blame, and he is right about everything, and his version of reality, history, etc is the true one.And this often involves, his negative speech actions, He didn’t do, someone else did, and their, actions and speech and good intentions, HE really did.Along with twisted versions of history with a grain of truth, he will also mix in many partly or fully fabricated things, that no one is sure of the veracity. He also plays numerous games of telling people, this person said this about you,and then going to the other person and saying this person said this, creating confusion, hurt, paranoia,and division among people.Even, when he has nothing monetarily to gain, and maybe, even when the truth might serve better, has a constant need and craving to be center of attention and importance in controlling and interacting with peoples lives in that fashion.
Also engages in very provoking behavior, to press peoples buttons, their sex lives, relationships, failures, losses,humiliations,harm done to them, fears,bad experiences they had, to make people “lose it” and seize upon the reaction as your the crazy one,etc and if not that, tojust enjoy the sadism of constantly poking at your worst experiences,and degrade your well being and confidence,and not have a feeling of control over you life and avoiding this person and their negative effect on your life. I guess what I am saying, it is more of a constant psychological attack upon you and control thing, than physical harrassment. Anyways, as this persons whole deal is, they have no mental problems, it’s you that has the problem, and I also am getting some chronic stress problem, from lack of sleep, and mind games,and twisted horrible messages about myself he constantly plants verbally repeats everyday (everybody hates you, you hate everybody, you are completely sick, you are a hateful person, everyone is afraid of you, you are going to kill someone, you are going to kill yourself, you want to poison your mom,you need to be fucked by someone to make you better, you are the angry person, you are the one that hates their family, you should be in prison and be raped, if you go on that vacation,you’ll end up raped and dead on the side of a road, you need to kill your uncle because he is a pedophile, etcetc)
When you run panicking to tell someone, he very calmly denie it, and uses it at proof, that you are mentally ill and dangerous.
This person has also gone to the lengths of stabbing self in leg to frame me to go to jail(luckily I was with other people to testify to my whereabouts at the time he claimed) If I wasn’t, who knows what would have happened to me, and that is part of how he uses fear to control people. Well, this is getting too long.

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Answer by Bill Gates
heh..tell me about it…

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