Proper care and a custody battle? Questions? Opinions?

Question by NoSoup4U: Proper care and a custody battle? Questions? Opinions?
My brother in law is fighting for partial custody of his son, once a week visits and every other weekend. Him and his ex girlfriend had a child together but didn’t tell them until after the split that she was pregnant. Her whole pregnancy she dogged him about stepping up and being a good father, which he was not willing to be unless it was proven that the child was his (one of the causes for the break up was her unfaithfullness). Yet since the child was born she has kept the child from him and decided not to let him have anything to do with his son.
She has lied through her teeth about his “excessive drinking” (I live with him and have seen him drink even a sip of alcohol once in three years), doing drugs (he has never even touched a cigarette), physical abuse (I’ve seen a girl punch him in the face once and all he did was calmly ask her to leave our house), and so one and so one including accusing me and my mother in law also of “extreme drug use”. To the point where the judge has to look into all these things but understands that she is a habitual liar.

So its an ongoing battle just to see my nephew. Recently it has come to light that she has been putting videos of him on youtube, the court told her because its against the fathers wishes (he thinks his son is being exploited) to please remove the videos from public view….since then she has only added more. THe one I saw today was of the 15 month old playing at the foot of an open flight of stairs, and her encouraging him to ride his bike right there. She has a security gate (as seen in the video leaning against a wall) but seems too lazy to put it in place. This room with the stairs is also the room his crib is in, my guess being that she just sticks him in the crib at night and still doesn’t block the very open stairs and causes me to fear that he might climb out one night and stumble down them.

Will this information be able to help my brother in law gain partial custody. He wants full custody but is on probation from before his ex for speaking sexually to a 16 year old girl over the internet…..she had lied about her age and at the time he was only 21…..so he carries a very small charge that required no jail time, and a bit of therapy.
he is not a registered sex offender because it was such a minor offence

the only thing stopping him from FULL custody is his probation which will be over in 2 years he still is allowed partial custody with consent from the court

Best answer:

Answer by How G
She has the right to lie about here age

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