Pregnant and thinking i should divorce my husband? Advice?

Question by Kevin: Pregnant and thinking i should divorce my husband? Advice?
I am 27 and was married for 7yrs to my husband who is 11yrs older than me, -I met him when i was 18 & the age gap never bothers me- We broke up 2 months ago & i am 3 months pregnant with our first child. He is in a touring band and has been for the last 19yrs, he had developed a heroin addiction before i met him but got clean from it. After we married he started using crack cocaine & i tried really hard to make him see what he was doing to himself but he never listened and he relapsed into Heroin again. Through out all this he never stopped telling me how much he loved me & how lucky he was to have me, he always bases his songs about me or drugs. He was charged 4yrs ago with DUI but the charges were dismissed after he successfully completed rehab and subsequent drug tests. He had another relapse with cocaine last year and i had him arrested on domestic violence charges for shoving me but dropped them as we agreed to counseling. I know all this is bad about him but he is really the most romantic person i have ever met and he goes out of his way to make me happy and every time i see him i want to be in his arms, i am so in love with him. He has been diagnosed with bipolar disorder, he is not under medication because of his past, but he is suffering from mood swings, but he can be so funny & everyone loves him. He has been clean/been at meetings since January. He came to see me last week and i told him to leave but he said he is staying in town until i talk to him and that hes not giving me up that easily because he cant imagine his life without me in it, he said that he will work his *** off to make me a happy, that he really needs me, he always holds me close to him. Im really in love with him & don’t want to give up on him but i don’t know how much i can take, I really need advice how can i help this?.

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Answer by Taylor
You have really been a lot stronger than I would have been. You have given him plenty of chances. If you do take him back make sure this is his LAST chance. He has to clean up for this baby. You do not want a child to live a life like that. If he is serious about having you and the baby then he can do anything! Good luck!

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