Possible Drug Abuse?

Question by Monica: Possible Drug Abuse?
i have a cousin who just left her husband about 2 months ago they have 2 darling little girls and something went terribly wrong. About 3 months ago she started working a night shift at walmart, and starting hanging out with a girl and constantly talked about her. Turns out this girl is lesbian and suddenly my cousin and her have been in a pretty serious relationship, this came out of the blue and wasnt ever even considerd. We accepted her decision because she was too important to lose over it, but now we think that this girl she is seeing might have gotten her into drugs. My cousin has lost a huge amount of weight, dosnet come around the family, dosent do anything with her girls, and never sleeps. She is constantly making trips way out of town for reasons we know arent true, and she is constantly asking for money. what kindof drugs could she be on, and can her ex make her take drug tests when they go back to court? How can we help her when she wont let us? Help!!!
i know she is an adult, but she is my family and i WONT leave her to fall alone, her ex has come to me becuase he is so hurt he has no idea what to do, and those girls mean the world to me and deserve to have a stable life.
i know that losing weight is the only physical sign, but she would never put anything else in front of her girls, and she would never ever ask the man she left for another women for money, she just wouldnt unless she was desprate, between her and her g/f they have plenty of money for bills and extra spending.

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Answer by D M
meth is the drug and the husband can prove an unfit mother with out much problems

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