Please read…what do you think?

Question by Christine: Please read…what do you think?
My ex & I were together for a year (got matching red heart tattoos) The first month was great, shortly after he showed his true colors. I soon realized that he is an alcoholic, daily Marijuana smoker, and even used “other” drugs at times (not me at all. I drink socially occassionaly). He became extremely verbally abusive. Mostly when he was drunk, but at times even when he wasn’t. He is 28, lives with his parents, has no car, and no job. Also, his son’s mom cheated on him, and had him thrown in jail for a month (all charges were dropped). His excuse for not working is that he is “raising his 4 year old son.” So, we did the on & off thing for a year going a few days here & there not talking (because I knew I didn’t deserve to be treated so badly), and then one of us would text, and we’d end up in the same boat all over again. Last time we talked, I told him to have a nice night, and that it was better if we didn’t hang out because I needed to get over him. He replied with “you’re trippn.” It’s been 1 month, and I haven’t heard from him at all. I’ve tried texting, and he does not reply (yes, he has the same number). No, I’m not an idiot, I just fell for the wrong guy, (and I totally fell in love with his son). All I ever did was be the loving girlfriend who was supportive, totally fun, nice, respectful, hardworking, etc, and he treated me horribly. I paid for everything, we used my car to go everywhere. So why am I so hurt, and wanting closure from him?

I text him Saturday night, and 10 minutes later a blocked number called my cell phone, and hung up after 2 rings (no one has my new #). He is the only person who used to block his #, and call me when he’d start a fight. 20 minutes later I text him again, and right after I got another blocked number. Think it was him? Just playing head games?

Thanks for reading, and I really appreciate any & all opinions

Best answer:

Answer by alexander w
.Are you mad.How can you care for this parasite.He’s a loser who sponges off hs friends,family and charity.Run and don’t look back.Count your blessings that this weirdo expects you to chase him.

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