Please help me I think my girlfriend gets abused and i dont know what i can do about it?
Question by i need help: Please help me I think my girlfriend gets abused and i dont know what i can do about it?
So this is like “mental” abuse and i dont know if it is or isnt and would LOVE some help because this is an issue that is bothering me extremely. My girlfriend is in her teens and is a very beautiful girl, but her parents are divorced and her dad makes less than 300$ a month and live with one of his Band Buddys. My girlfriend told me that he used to do cocain behind her back and her mom just recently told her this, about a month or two ago. Besides that her mom is a complete “W H O R E” excuse my language please but that is the best way to describe her. But the bad part about this is, is that she tells my girlfriend EVERYTHING SHE DOES and it is in COPLETE DETAIL. She told her that whe she was 15 she had a best friend, and she tried to see if she could be lesbian and started making out with her and then her friend went to her”downthere”. But in detail. Then she told her in DETAIL about how she did 3 otherguys all at the same time that she had just met at a bar.. IN COMPLETE DETAIL. It is so disgousting and this is just two of the storys or the probable thousands that have been told to her. Another thing is she has a “boyfriend” who is marryed and she goes and has sex with him every week. And she tells my girlfriend ever single detail about everything that they do. Like it is imposible to write how much things i could talk about, and how twisted the things this woman tells her daughter. But the thing that scares me most is that my girlfriend has a very unique mind and is easily persuaded or accepts things easily and she doesnt see the bad in many things and it is extremellly hard to type about how her mind works. Me my self am also a teenager and this is pretty much my “cry” for help. Can you please tell me if this is abuse and how i can make it stop, (by haveing my girlfriend go to fostercare) or anything. Before its too late 🙁 . And if you cant figure out what i mean by too late i mean that she becomes like her Mother.. because the kind of mind she has would allow her to do so.. wich is extremely sad 🙁 so PLEASE HELP ME 🙁
NOTE: My girlfriend told me that she has a thing with her that she sometimes does things in REAL life as if it were a dream.. and that afterwards she forgets what has even happened… also that she CANNOT control what hapens in her dreams… So that is another thing that bothers me extremely.. Also because her friends are a little bit REALLY FREAKIN WIERD.. SO PLEASE HELP ME
the thing im scared of is that she is going to end up like her mom … at a young age she also told me her mom slept with an average 3 guys a week as a freshman in highschool.. so im preety sure you can call that a whore.. but idk what im gunna do i need my brain to organize everything in to a simple plan and i will tell you what happenns if you want more info on this email me.. bobkwasaki@yahoo thanks you for every thing you have done and if you want to add anything that could help me go ahead.. oh and another thing , she says when she has the “dream” like thing she completely what she did for that period of time or just forgets what she did outa the blue
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Answer by sunset
Sorry, this would be much too much drama in my life. I’d just end the relationship right now, sorry.
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