Okay i need your help with my shyness issue…?
Question by : Okay i need your help with my shyness issue…?
Im 17 and go to an extra health class after school twice a week, the instructor is a guy called Damon. I would say he is around 30. I’m really shy anyway but wanted to do this for extra qualifications and that. I’ve been going for around 2 months now and i just feel like the guy always directs what hes saying to me and always looks at me. It makes me really uncomfortable and i cant get on with the practical stuff for him coming over and trying to “help”. Its made me think about quitting, but i havent wasted all those hours after school to just quit now. What should i do because its gotten to the stage now where i know im not just working myself up over nothing. This other girl who is around 19 that goes to help clearly is like in LOVE with this guy, you know flirting and all the rest, now she gives me dirty looks and i havn’t done anything! PLEASE ADVICE? xxx
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Answer by Writer_meets_Ninja
If your 17 and he’s 30 and he’s making you uncomfortable then it’s probably not just shyness. If you don’t want to give up the course then you could try to make it clear to the other chick that you’re not interested in him. I really don’t know what you’d do about him. It would make everything awkward if you told him to stop looking at you, but if you’re THAT uncomfortable…
Good luck =)
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