Okay, guys…what’s REALLY going on here?

Question by thekillernme: Okay, guys…what’s REALLY going on here?
The Stats: I am 25 years old and my boyfriend (of 4 1/2 months) is 46. I have had 30 partners in my life, and he has had 5.

The problem: He has a history of sexual addiction, although he swears he “hasn’t masterbated or looked at porn since he moved onto the property” (which was 6 months ago). I knew there was something wrong because of his ED, the inorgasmia, and the loss of sensitivity. At first he blamed me, but finally admitted having similar problems with his last gf, who also accused him of being addicted. But since her, “he has been on the road to recovery”.

The Question: The last two times he HAS ejaculated, he decided to pull out…even though I’m pregnant. And I thought we both enjoyed his finishing inside me… When I asked him about it (very gently) he said, “I don’t know”. Then he changed it to, “I did it so you could see.” Then it was, “Maybe I did it for me.” After that: “Maybe out of habit? I don’t know.”
He finally settled for, “I did it so you could see that I won’t have a problem cumming all the time.” … And one more thing: it wasn’t that much cum at all. Not what I think it should have been… HELP!?
I know we’re screwed up, but could anybody please tell me what he’s hiding?

Best answer:

Answer by stl_luna_7
Sounds like he was thriving off your sexual history and I think both of you need counseling.

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