Need some good advice?

Published May 30, 2010

There’s a girl I used to think of as a friend. She was a drug addict which is the main reason things ended badly between us. I cared about her a great deal and I was a great friend to her. I did everything I could to try to help the girl, but her drugs and her drug addict BF were much more important to her than our friendship and she ended up resenting me and seeing me as the bad guy for trying to help her. Something I’m sure her BF was more than happy to promote if not the root of.

Its been over a year since our friendship ended. Since then she was arrested on felony drug possession and distribution charges which are still pending. Amazingly enough with her BF, but he was only charged with misdemeanor drug possession charges. A few months later from what I have been told she got back into a methadone treatment program, and has been doing good. not actually clean if you ask me, but IF it is true, it’s better than nothing but not the drug treatment program I think she should be in to actually have her be drug free and not just replacing one drug for another, as the meth treatment does.

My problem is she’s back working at the bar I frequent. Now before anyone suggests “just go to another bar” thats just not going to happen, I’m not switching bars because of her or anyone else. Been going there for years and have alot of friends there.

So how would u deal with her if u were in my situation? Ignore her totally as if we never met? Stay cordial and say hello if our paths cross? Try to strike up a conversation or something else?

Honestly my gut says ignore her and if she approaches me, which I seriously doubt she will, just be cordial. There is still a piece of me that cares about her, but alot has happened and I dont know if I could trust her again or forgive her for some of the things she did.

Need some good advice?

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