My son refuses to take a drug test, what should i do?

Question by Maressa Yates: My son refuses to take a drug test, what should i do?
My son is 14 and he has always had good grades. And everything but lately he has not been acting himself all he wants to do is come home and sleep. His grades have been slipping he has been pulling away from me and his dad. He has started to lash out and he flips out for no reason at all. I have learned he has been skipping his class’s. I have tried to talk to him but he just blows up at me and tells me everything is fine and to leave him alone. So my husband went out and bought a drug test and we asked him to take it but he is refusing and we are not sure what to do. We have taken away his laptop,cell,Video games, but he wont budge on it. I am at my wits end my husband searched his room and found some what looks to be meth and pot in his closet. Should we take him to a rehab center? Because my son appears to be on the road for self destruction. Advise?

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Answer by georgie is dead.
meth and pot would be a weird kind of combination… i didnt read your whole story, but if he refuses to take a drug test, you can find a way to force it. take him to the doctor too, they can do a hair test or blood test if he refuses to do a urine test.

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