My parents want me to stop smoking weed, help please? NEED help!?

Question by Throwdhabzup: My parents want me to stop smoking weed, help please? NEED help!?
*Please do not judge me because I smoke weed, but if you have any information, or helpful advice please give it to me 😀 *

Okay, first off, I am 16 1/2 years old. I have been in some trouble in the past 2-5 years .. i smoke cigarettes, weed, and drink alcohol. My parents have accepted that I smoke cigarettes and usually buy them for me, some people dont agree with that, but I have more than half of my friends being over 18, and my parents smoked when they were younger and know how addictive it is. With the whole marijuana thing, weed relaxes me, and takes alot, and i mean alot, of stress away. I have never been caught by the police with weed, and im not saying it couldnt happen, but I am a respectful weed smoker and mostly will smoke a little bit before bed, or in the morning, etc., but I am never high to the point my personality changes. My close friend just got murdered 2 weeks ago, my cousin died in a car crash in June 2009, my grandma died when I was 6, my great grandma died when I was 12, and my grandpa has cancer as of right now is expected to live no more than 3 months. I try and block everything out but Its hard. I believe weed should be legal, and i dont want treatment for weed because I do not feel I have a problem. My parents apparently talked to my therapist about it (I have ADHD & ODD – ODD is oppositional defiancy disorder). My therapist is very highly rated and she told my parents I didnt want to agree to treatment. I guess it would be random urine tests, etc., until I stop or something like that. My therapist told my parents I have 2 options, the easy and the hard. Either I go to her, or she is going to help them to get me in with the court. Apparently the court would test more often and possibly (probably) either have me put into a rehab or a nonpermanent home. I am going to try and work around the whole ordeal all together but I don’t feel as if I am being given ANY rights as an american citizen. I did not harm anybody, yet I may have to be put into a rehab, or taken from my home just because I smoke weed every once in a while?? What are my rights? Also, I have trust problems.. to the fullest, how is my therapist helping AT ALL by attempting to MAKE me go here, and behind my back telling my parents things they can do to basically screw me over. I reallly really need help. You can e-mail me at : [email protected] , but I prefer answers here. I don’t even want to go to this therapist, but basically my parents are threatning that either I go to her or I am being put into a home.

Please, please help ! 🙁

Best answer:

Answer by mr.
just try to stop smoking and drinking cuz thoose two will fuck you up and might even make girls not like you or cause death get medical help go see a councelor

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