My girlfriend wants to take a break and then wants to get back later?

Question by Powerful Fellow: My girlfriend wants to take a break and then wants to get back later?
Ok. We are in a long distance relationship and have been dating for almost 2 years.

However, things had gotten rough and she said I was “Verbally abusing” her, which I don’t really contend with, but she felt like that apparently… I told her I would stop smothering her but apparently she’s talking to some “really nice” kid that she has the urge to “flirt with” and she feels like she needs to date him (though she says nothing serious) so she can get with me later and be happy 100% with our relationship.

She said the most she’ll do with this guy is kiss him. And she said it won’t get serious.
She cries about it to me and tells me she doesn’t know what to do and says she wants to be happy in the short term (which she assumes him) and me in the long term. But I told her I can adapt and make her more happy in the present and ask her less questions all the time (a bad habit, I know).

I just feel like no other guy would be waiting around for a girl like this. I’m attractive and can really pretty much get any girl I want and we’ve taken one break before and I honestly could not find another love. I knew a lot but none even got me aroused, and they were some pretty hot chicks.

I just know she is for me. And I feel stupid waiting around and I can NOT believe she is even wanting to date him..

I don’t know what to do. She’s coming for Spring Break and says she wants to go with the flow with me because “we have no rules about what we can and can’t do” and then go back and date him casually. I’m just afraid that she will get carried away and forget about me and get more serious…

I just need your opinions. Every viewpoint. Every possibility and what I should do. I know I can’t be happy with anyone else and she believes the same for her in the long run she says. I feel like I’m being played the fool.
What do I do??
There’s 16 days until I see her and she says she will not get more serious with this guy until after she comes. And I just feel stupid if I kiss her and make love to her and show her how strongly I love her if she’s just going to go with some random ass flake who she just has started seeing as “incredibly nice and a good person.”

She, in my opinion, is being really stupid… I mean her family life should reflect the importance of being mono-inclusive to one person because her mother has been in and out of marriages for a long time.
And my girlfriend says she just wants to get the feeling of flirting out of her system so we can be happy in the long run. But I feel like things will get out of hands if I let her.

What do I say?
She honestly, for some reason, can’t let this guy away from her and I feel pulls him closer to her. I feel like a fool for waiting. No other guy would.. But I know either of us will be happy if she does this.

I need guidance..

Best answer:

Answer by Vanessa G
I think only Cornelius would know. You obviously don’t have a gf, just a casual bench-warmer…

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