My 2 1/2 year old with behavior problems?

Question by hurkamurk: My 2 1/2 year old with behavior problems?
My 2 1/2 year old daughter seems to have serious behavior problems. Both me and my husband have a fair share of “mental problems.” I have severe anxiety, depression and been diagnosed with mild ADHD. my problems are medicated and under control as best as can. My husband has been diagnosed at a young age with pretty bad ADHD, in school he was in classes for being ADHD and Classified “E.D.” My daughter is showing all the classic symptoms that he also shows for ADHD, and some days I cant handle it. I dont know what to do with her, I also have a 9 month old I take care of. I told my husband I was considering going to see if she had ADHD, and possible medication. he flat out refuses to get her medicated. He was medicated with ritilan as a kid, and it made him into a zombie, he drooled on himself and got lots of bloody noses. He dosent want her to go onto Adderal because its “as addictive as crystal meth” and he dosent want to put her on it. I dont know what to do.
He thinks we need to put her on a strict schedule. I am not able to do a strict schedule…mine is more layed back. Honestly, I am not sure I am capible mentally of doing a strict schedule. Help me please! my daughter throws fits over EVERYthing, I cant handle it anymore
Please no rude comments!!! I am racking myself enough about how to handle this!….I have been loosing sleep over it!
I do spank her when nessacary. I am a beliver in spanking.
Oh and A M…I dont “watch” a 9 month old…..I have a 9 month daughter also. I have 2 kids…

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Answer by THINK
why why why why why did you have kids?

sounds to me like they should be taken into care for the good of all of you.

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