just want different thoughts on adult children living with parents?

Question by Lori L: just want different thoughts on adult children living with parents?
My child made a decision a few months ago, to quit his job, become stranger to me and his father but not letting us know where he was at for months. Many times not respoding to any of our phone calls or text messages. Then we get a text message askinf if we have an extra bedroom that he and his girlfriend can live in. ( he is 19 she is 21). He also went to tell us he has overdrawn his bank account, is deliquent on his credit cards and the both of the are addicted to meth and leaving on the street….. this pulled at our heart strings and we set them up in their own apt. this lasted a full 3 weeks, as they got thrown out do to loud fighting.. during this time he was very physical agressive to me ( his mother ) for no reason and has scared me to death. He them went to live at his Dads house, one week later he threatned some teen agers his own age, resistned arised, DUI and is not doing 9 months in county…. My husband and i struggle each and every day as to the what the right thing to do is upon is release. Also need to tell you we have news of his 21 year girlfriend being pregant. Her family has lived homless for more tha 30years… this is just the icing on the cake…any suggestions!

Best answer:

Answer by DonaldM
First, he needs to go into rehab to break his addictions. Then, you need to set down some rules if you’re going to support him. He needs to get a job, etc.

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