Is it terrible to have a child from a guy that is recovering from cocaine addiction.?

Question by Laura: Is it terrible to have a child from a guy that is recovering from cocaine addiction.?
I am fourty years old and desperately wanting a child. Met this guy a year ago. I am in love with him but don’t trust that he can stay sober. I am also worried about the sperm and whether the baby will be ok. I am financially secure and was even thinking of sperm bank before he came in the pic. Now pressured by time, worried not to make the wrong decisions.

Best answer:

Answer by kiikart
If you are even questioning whether he can remain sober, i say NO…for your health and the baby’s (both mentally and physically). There’s more to it, but a plain and simple answer is that you might want to consider a healthy donor, especially if you don’t want a toxic relationship (no pun intended).

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