Is it normal to be scared of attracting an “abusing” boyfriend?

Question by Deniece: Is it normal to be scared of attracting an “abusing” boyfriend?
When I get older, I’m scared that one day I might date someone who may be an abusing boyfriend. That is one of my reasons for dating. What if I move in with him or I accept his proposal for marriage and he turns into the abusing type? What if I turn someone down and they try to kill me? What if I brake up with my boyfriend and he tries to kill me?

Please don’t say,”You are overreacting… That is a one in a million chance that will happen”… What if that one in a million chance happen to me? I’m scared… Is there any signs of an abusing boyfriend?
But what if he tries to kill me when I brake up with him? How did the world end up like this? 🙁

Best answer:

Answer by nelly
The first sign i’m guessing would be if you feel uncomfortable around him or concerned about your safety. From the moment you feel that, you should end it.

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