Is it abuse if the guy you are dating play hits you really hard twice a day?

Question by Fleur: Is it abuse if the guy you are dating play hits you really hard twice a day?
Should I be his girlfriend? I told him I would need some time to think about it. when I was dating him he would hit me really really hard in the shoulder… I guess his way of playing, and I told him it hurt. He said quit being a little baby. I’m 19 and he was 21 btw. It left a bruise. He would hit me a couple times a day playfully but it seriously hurt and I told him to stop and he wouldn’t. Then he got really angry when I was going to hang out with another guy and drove around to my house and spied on me. Which I thought was a little crazy, but he just said it’s because he really liked me and didn’t want to lose me. Also he would take me out and speed in his car, flip off the other drivers, and cuss them out. I asked a friend of his why he would do that, and he said that he likes to control stuff… do you think this was abuse?

Best answer:

Answer by Pauline
Are you a Masochist?You must like it or you would drop him

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