INTERVENTION? ALL advice and knowledge needed… 20 year old,6 months PREGNANT!?
Question by Wing-Girl: INTERVENTION? ALL advice and knowledge needed… 20 year old,6 months PREGNANT!?
So i have decided to separate from my baby;s father because of a marijuana problem he has… and his lack of responsibility with work, bills, and etc. But instead of just kicking him out to go move back in with his parents, I think it would be best for some type of intervention so he has the option to get help or if he doesnt want help to leave….
My grandma is basically my mother, she has really helped raising me since my parents had me in highschool, she has really been there through thick and thin,
Anyways my grandma is going to call his mother to talk about some arrangment with his mother so we can sit “him” down this weekend and get him help with his drug problem and help him improve his life. IF he chooses help, I will continue to be with him, and help him through it, if doesnt get help I will dis-continue our realtionship and get a lawyer and start the papers for full custody and child support. I just bought a house have a GREAT paying job that I will not lose, go to college and will continue after she is born…
Since in 3 months I will be giving birth to our child I have decided that I have done everything I could in the past 6 months to get him to quit or cut-down, shape up or ship out he hasnt done much improvement I DEARLY LOVE HIM BECAUSE HE IS THE FATHER OF MY CHILD… but im losing interest and its becoming a huge turn off for me because he isnt a driven person like me.
So when this intervention is happinning iam having a hard time putting my words together to make him understand Im not wanting to change him, BUT HIS ADDICTION PROBLEM… to better himself
I am asking am I doing the right thing but giving him this choice?
and what should I say to him to make him relize that i do love him and this has to end and needs to grow up
iINFO ON HIM
22 years old
no car
no driver lincense
G.E.D
works for parents business
works under 25 hours a week
making 9 an hour
smokes heavly cigrettes and weed
drinks ALOT of energy drinks
Best answer:
Answer by Rad-Tech
I say go ahead and ditch him. If knowing he was going to be a father didn’t change him, then NOTHING will. You are wasting your time and energy on him. He is a loser. My daughter’s father is just about the same person…and he is a loser too.
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