I really need advice, do you think my boyfriend is on meth or any other “uppers”?
Question by wouldnt u like 2 know: I really need advice, do you think my boyfriend is on meth or any other “uppers”?
I 1st met my boyfriend 2yrs ago, he had just stopped doing meth and had even been in jail months before because of it. he said he had quit because he realized how much it messed up his life and all the things he lost because of it. well here recently he has befriended this guy at work, he told me the guy has offered to get him meth and he told him no, but here lately he’s been acting odd. he’s been salting a big companys parking lot when it snows because its part of his job, well here lately he’s been licking his lips alot, saying his whole body hurts, and one night he had to stay up all night scraping and salting this companys parking lot, he worked for over 24hrs straight without sleep, he slept when he got home. but i looked at his phone last night cause him and his new “friend” have been texting and calling each other alot. one of the texts he asks his friend “is there anymore of that good around?” and another one he asks “whens the snow coming?”. i confronted him about this and he denied it all. he said i should trust him more than that, and that i dont understand how him and his friend text each other so i shouldn’t accuse him. he said he licks his lips cause they are staying chapped because he works out in the cold weather so much. but just tonight we were having dinner at his moms house and he was talking alot, she said “son, your hyper as hell” and he just made the excuse that he was happy to be able to spend time with us cause he’s been working so much. he still eats and sleeps, but i remember him telling me a long time ago that he had learned to do that when he use to smoke it cause his mom and boss was onto him, so he started eating while he was on it. do you think he’s on it? how can i tell? i’m sure he will be sure to keep any texts that refer to drugs deleted. i want so badly to think he’s not lying, but i have a very bad feeling about this. what are the signs that he’s on any kind of upper at all? like coke, meth or crack? please dont leave me smart@ss replies. i told him to begin with if he ever did meth again i would leave him in a second and never speak to him again.
another thing i forgot to put is that he’s been sweating like crazy, even when its not hot in the house, he blames it on being out in the cold weather so much that his body temp is messed up.
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Answer by tab227
Half way through this I could already honestly say “yes”, he’s on meth. Sorry.
One of the signs you can look for is in his physical appearance. Like if his hair and skin look unhealthy and if he starts picking at his skin a lot. Another is to keep an eye on his hygene. And take caucious notice on his spending.
You don’t need to sneek around or follow to see the signs.
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