I have been married for 14 years to my husband?

Question by Rhiannon: I have been married for 14 years to my husband?
We have been married for 14 yrs and happened to get into an argument I know I said something that I should not have in front of our kids. I was angry because he was making plans to go shooting with friends when I was hoping to make plans to go to lake with my sister. we don’t do much as a family so I got upset and told our daughter that he was a shit. hubby got upset and left the house and did not come home that night. I went to lake the next day and ended up staying cuz we had been drinking and I did not want to drive home from flag to Prescott. I called left message nobody home and told hubby staying at sisters. Came home the next day and he walks in the door I thought we could talk at this time and I could applogize and make up however he gets his clothes and leaves. I ask where he is going and he tells none of my F***** concern. He left us for two days with no word. So I thought I would go to my mom’s house and stay with them for a bit I called hubby’s parents and left message for hubby that I was going to cali to chill out, we would talk soon. Get to cali and hubby calls that night to make sure we made it, he talked to my dad. The next day my son locks the keys in car, I call hubby to get money, he tells me okay let me know how much. I tried to call him again and no answer I left messages for him and no calls back from him. Two weeks go by without a word. My friend whom lives across street calls me and tells me people have moved into my home. I had no idea what to do I called and no reply from hubby. Mom and I decide to go to AZ and find out what is going on I leave kids not knowing what to expect and having no money to go on we had to wait until she got paid to go. I show up at night, cars parked in my driveway I am shocked. I open the door with my house key and there are 3 people laying on my couch smoking in my home and watching movies. Ask them what they are doing there and why in my house. Don’t see hubby so I go to my bedroom and open up door, there he is in bed with another woman I ask him if he has been fucking her cuz all her things were in my room her suit case and her dog house and dirty clothes on floor and my dirty panties still on floor from when I left. I look at her and she has mouth rot and is missing several teeth “meth mouth” I guess it called. These people set up house the day I left to go to cali and I have never known my hubby to keep such company and was totally shocked that he let them set up house when I had all my belongings and the kids belongings there, we were not even planning to go away forever I thought we needed to chill out. Now he has abandoned the house, not paying any bills, walked out of his job and all I could do was get a few things out of house. I have no idea where he is he won’t call the kids ever and won’ t give out his number however I did find his new cell number and have left messages he won’t return. On my daughters birthday he calls and leaves a message for her and his home landline number, however the kids have tried to call his new number and he won’t even return their calls. What the hell happened and did this happen all because of one argument or was he cheating on me for sometime? My sis called his bro and his bro said the girl was there to help him file divorce however I found pics of him and her sucking the rest of her teeth out of her head and they are now in love I guess. I just need to know what happened and why he is treating his kids like this. His family never liked me and were complaining about me not having a job. I have been looking but it is hard when I have been an at home mom(that was my job) for sometime and the shit thing was the day I was there packing I got an job offer from yavapai college. I am now finding myself in cali with no idea where hubby is at and kids are sooooo sad they lost everything he sends no money and has totally fallen off the earth, I hurt so much and have idea what went wrong I thought we were going to conquer the world together.

Best answer:

Answer by Frank1122
Someone call a doctor…..

I’ve been crushed by a wall of text!!

Read some of your stuff. Sounds like a springer episode. Your best bet is to marry your uncle/dad and raise bison on your pig farm while little jimmy shoots his first deer and finally becomes a man. yeeeeeehaw!!

What do you think? Answer below!