” I got caught drinking/smoking weed”?

Question by Minister (.Christian.): ” I got caught drinking/smoking weed”?
Abusive parents disrespect you so that you feel drinking and smoking is no big deal. Then they catch you and get off on it. Its all a game and they win by making you out to have a problem. Youre just reacting to poor parenting and abuse. This game can go on for years into adulthood until you realize they are liars even tho the words might sound true. Abusers are experts at twisting words and making things sound true just to hurt you.

The reason you could care less about drinking and whatever is cause you dont care about their rules. Why? cause there is no respect in the family. There is distance and hatred. The words they use to bring constant anger is a key sign.

Hurting people hurt others. They are sick and being mean makes them feel better. People/kids/parents do mean things or lie and control. They just want the reaction so they can get high feel good from it. The words are not true. They have a problem and they need control.

Also -When you have a bad past/rejection/father gone it lets other things start. Anorexia Bi polar, Cutting, OCD, anxiety, panic attacks, hearing voices can all come from a tramautic past. It opens doors to the negative and they start to dwell closeby, like addicitons cravings.

You can talk to me or google “emotional abuse” and see all the definitions and see its all true. Knowing the truth is the step to freedom from pain. Negative people and abuse brings spiritual problems so praying to get rid of negative things of a spiritual nature is often needed after years of abuse. Its not you its them. Its all about you having control.

Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged. Colosians 3-21

1. Read online about verbal abuse. Read 20+ sites. BULLYING 20 sites
2. Realize its their problem.
3. Realize anger hurts you not them.
4. Google “Sinners prayer”- stops sadness.
5. Google “Deliverance Prayers”

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Source– Experience

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