I cant deal with this guy I’m dating, he’s in AA. How do I break it out to him?
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I’m dating a guy who’s in AA- and really regret it. Last time we broke up he fell off the wagon. I cant deal with him.
We met in Jan 08 got serious in Mar 08. He seemed so composed until out of nowhere he fell off the wagon. That weekend he broke up with me for a stupid reason, and he went on an alcohol and cocaine binge. I am so scared- I never expected him to relapse just like that.He said he went to a hotel, and in 24hrs had 2 bottles of vodka, 18 beers, 0 worth of cocaine, 0 worth of crack. He’s acting so strange since then I am almost scared to be around him. Please help. I dont what to do. I am respecting his wishes of not discussing this with my friends. I’m lost. I am not in AA by the way, and dont know what hes going through. Im scared he will do this next time we argue. In fact, I dont even want to have aboyfriend like that anymore. How do I break up with this person?
Best answer:
Answer by dudleydo
Just stop dating him. Have you ever heard of just not answering your phone? You have to get away from him as you cannot help him, he must help himself and he sounds as though he never will. Give up on him before you get into more trouble than you ever thought you could, or before YOU become addicted also. Good luck.
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