I cant’ believe this happened to me and I don’t know how to deal with it?

Question by Wayne H: I cant’ believe this happened to me and I don’t know how to deal with it?
Hi everyone,

I recently got divorced and I have met some new people at the divorce support group here in my town. One of the guys at the divorce group seemed like a nice guy and we had a lot in common so we paired up in the buddy support system so we could call one another if there was a problem. Well, it has been a couple of months now and he calls every night and I go to find out that he also is attending other support groups such as the cancer survivor group, the addiction support group and some others. I dont think he actually ever was married or has any of these problems and is just looking for people to latch on to at this point. How should I deal with this individual. I have tried not answering the phone and the door but he persists and has waited for up to 6 hours for me to leave my apartment to go out.

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Answer by quay_grl
Well I saw this in a movie once. I think it’s a cry for attention on his part and a touch of obsessive behaviour too.

You can always get a restraining order from the police. If he breaches it, he is in violation of the law and can be arrested / charged.

Don’t be thick now.

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