i am refusing to go to my daughters wedding should I go?

Question by cindyt t: i am refusing to go to my daughters wedding should I go?
My daughter has been with the same guy for 5 years and they have a two year old daughter. He has been off and on heroin for all those years. Now I find out she also has been on heroin. She was jailed for 4 weeks but she has been back home for 2 months. However she is showing signs of being back on the heroin again. He has been to rehab four times this year and just lost his good paying job because he failed yet another drug test. The only reason I let her stay with me is my grandchild. At least I know the baby is okay when she is home. NOW this loser is trying to talk her into marrying him. Of course he is, she has a decent job and is paying all his bills. Plus the more he gets her to use drugs the more control he has over her. I told her I couldn’t stop her but I refuse to go. It is so frustrating to watch your only child throw her life down the toilet, and drag this little baby with her. What would you do?

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Answer by roryg44
you might regret not going. although maybe you should have her cinsdier getting help, like a pyschologist, so that way she can learn that he is no good for her or her child. just be supportive, its all you can do. she has to want to get the help.

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