I am Depressed and i need help!!!?
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For the past two months things have been terrible. For starters my ex-girlfriend, Lynn, told me she had another boyfriend. I live in Arizona, she lives in Florida. We are rather young, I’m 14 she is 12. I was hoping i was ready for a long distance relationship. Her new boyfriend lives in the same city as her, so i see why she’d want to be with him more. I am still crazy in love with her, and we are still best friends, which i have a feeling may be the problem. Along with that a great friend of mine, Nerissa (also friends with Lynn and lives in the same city as Lynn), is going through a lot. I try to be the best friend i can to all of my friends. If they have a problem, and as long as they are okay with it, i try to get involved enough to help them as much as i can because i care so much for them and prefer to see them happy. Well Nerissa isn’t eating much because she says that she is fat. I completely disagree with that. She posted a picture of her in a bikini, and she was, by all-means, skinny. She is always wanting to end her life, and she sees that i am sort of the same way, but i see that it would hurt to many people. She also found out that she has heart cancer. She passes out a lot, and her heart-beat-rate increases a lot and she get dizzy. For obvious reasons it is because of either the cancer or because she doesn’t get the nutrients she needs.This really stresses me out because she is so self-conscious. Everyone agrees! I found out from a few doctors that i have a severely rare condition that prevents me from remembering most things that stress me out. It may sound stupid, a lie, whatever you think; but they told me this so unfortunately i can’t give much more information about what has been going on. But with everything going on, i have turned to many things: I have tried smoking cigarettes, marijuana, and different types of alcohol. I am by far not proud of it, and it doesn’t help much. I am not addicted to any of them, so i can easily quit. My next step was to try something more “out there”, cutting. I have had suicidal thoughts, but i have never tried anything. I have no plans of wanting to end my life, though i feel it is the only way out. I have gone to a clinic to try to fix things. It only made things seem worse. They kept me over for the night. It felt awful and my stress level increased dramatically. I am just completely loosing it! I dont think therapy, psychology, any of that helps one bit; if anything it just increases my depression, sadness, and stress. I need to know what to do!!! If i can’t even rely on the highest form of “help” i can get, then what can i do!
I am sorry this is so long. I tried to make it as short as possible. There were a few things i could have added but i didn’t want to make it any longer for any of you. PLEASE HELP!
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Answer by Soapy
go to a emergency mental health clinic, use it. dont think that it isnt healthy that it makes you insane wierd or any of that. I have depression and anxiety, as well as some dissorder i recently found out of that makes me have fake memories. anyways. go get help if you use the mental health facility it will help.
dont leave anything out, anything your worried about, dont leave any symptoms any odd things your expiriencing, if you put the work in to recover you will recover you will learn to live with things you cant change and how to deal with things you can.
trust me psychology counseling and therapy help. it takes a team to make you healthy again. talk let people know what you feel. your parents and friends may want to help but its better to talk with somone else, somone who has nothing to gain and nothin to lose.
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