How will I not lose my cool in court tomorrow? My ex-husband is a low life meth head…?

Question by Joni B: How will I not lose my cool in court tomorrow? My ex-husband is a low life meth head…?
He didn’t call or some see our daughter for over 4 mos. so I got a court order stopping his visits so she would no longer have to wonder every Sun. if he was coming, so now he is saying it’s all my fault, waagh, waagh. The judge didn’t believe anything he said the last 2 times but he still just makes me sooo mad. The judge is going to talk to our daughter, she is 13, and I’m not really concerned about the outcome, if I can sit quietly and ignore his lying BS. The judge is also the drug court judge so recognizes his behavior. Help, I’m letting this creep have too much time in my head!
She knows, without me saying a word.
I am a recoverying alcoholic addict, 2 1/2 years clean,–since the day I left him!
thanks guys, for the kind words, it does help settle me down, yes I use the this too shall pass daily. And I have a good man who is also a recovering addict and my daughter adores him. We’ve been together 22 months.

Best answer:

Answer by Beth
You’ll just have to sit back and bite your tongue, as hard as it will be. Saying something may only come back to hurt your case in the end. It sounds to me like you are not the only one in this situation who can see through your ex’s lies, so I would have faith that things will go your way.

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