how do I help my alcohol addicted bestfriend?

Question by bettinah: how do I help my alcohol addicted bestfriend?
he has very low self esteem and is shy, (reason) he never goes to have a hair cut in a salon, has a hairdresser always come to his house, doesn’t like making new friends, has the same friends since he was 20 and he is now 40. Spends hours indoors alone (when he’s not working) or in his parents house, drinks all the time, and is able to consume up to 3 to 5liters of beer daily. on top of that he drinks apperitifs or had drinks occationally or on basis of 4 times in a week ;He gets aggitated and argumentative when one tries to make the point that he drinks to much; He never discusses his personal problems and is not willing to seek help help or accept that he needs it.

Best answer:

Answer by yellowjeff
You can’t help those who won’t help themselves.

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