How can I regain my sex drive after long-term boyfriend’s porn addiction?

Question by someone?: How can I regain my sex drive after long-term boyfriend’s porn addiction?
My boyfriend of 5 years almost never wants to have sex. After years of asking him what I can do to help improve our sex life, he finally admitted to me that he got bored of our sex life and just looks at porn now to satisfy himself. When I asked what kind of porn he looks at (to try and get an idea of what I could try to spice things up) he said he just looks at pictures of naked women and pretends he’s having sex with them.

This whole ordeal has caused my self esteem to drop tremendously. We had sex for the first time in about 2 months a few nights ago, and all I could think about was him looking at naked pictures of other women and how I wasn’t good enough for him and couldn’t turn him on, etc. I definitely couldn’t climax, though he did.

How can I trust that he actually wants to be with me? How can I rebuild my sex drive with him?

Please DON’T tell me that all guys look at porn and it’s my problem not theirs, and that I just need to get over it. That’s a load of crap.

Best answer:

Answer by fahim f
hmmm … let me think … i am a wannabe psychiatrist ……..
sounds like a personal problem….

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