How can I keep my Childrens G’mother out of their lives.?

Question by Momof3cs: How can I keep my Childrens G’mother out of their lives.?
Help….I have two children age 19 and 11 from a previous marriage. My children and I left 6 years ago after their Father got “hooked” on meth. Since then, they have a very little, if any contact with their family on his side. (They have a step-father and he wants to adopt my 11 year old) The last time my 19 year old had contact with his G’ma she needed help cleaning out the house we use to live in (with their father) and my son found meth making ingredients in a cooler. He pointed it out to his G’ma and she put it in her trunk and left with it. Of course, my son (who was 16 at the time) did not tell me this until about 6 months later. This woman has supported her son and his drugs from day one and still thinks he has no problem even though he is now serving a 10 year prison term. Okay, here is my problem: We have found out she has lost her house and is moving into the small town we are living in and is also bring my ex’s drugged out girlfriend who right after our divorce spit at and burned my daughter with a cigerette at a funeral we attended. She has had nothing to do with my 11 year old daughter and I am thankful for that, but now she and the girlfriend has started driving by, trying to follow my daughter and my daughter is scared of them. My daughter says she wants nothing to do with them, she is embarressed and now worries that people are going to think off her different because her Dad is in jail. This has never been an issue with her before. I think since the G’ma is in town and driving by it is bring up the issue. I hate that this has happened to my children and I have always been truthful with them about the situation with their Father, and they have seemed to deal with it pretty well. What should I do? Should I confront them and tell them to stay away…Which I am scared that will turn real ugly…I do not want my daughter hurt or scared, but I do not know how to go about it? Help???

Best answer:

Answer by mr.slowking
get a restraining order on their asses. easy.

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