How can I help the father of my children and the love of my life kick his cocaine addiction?

Published May 22, 2010

I am 9 mos pregnant and I also have a 6 yr old with my bf of 7 years. We have been through so much together, everything from home invasion to rape and also me being unfaithful once. We have always enjoyed to party together and for a while I started experimenting with cocaine with him, even after 5 years of being totally against it. Now I have made a vow before god to change my life around for myself and my children but my bf still has his habits. It almost hipocritical of me to tell him quit or say goodbye to your family but I need him to be clean for me to stay on my track of change. I am constatly upset with him because he is always high of drunk. I told him I was going to leave and that I was not going to let him be there for the delivery of the baby if he is wasted. I have been majorly stressed this whole pregnancy and I am about to have a nervouse breakdown because of this. I don’t know how to handle him. He says its not fun anymore but he cannot help the cravings, he says he needs my support but I also need his and he has totally not been there for me these past 9 mos. I dont know if I should stick it out with him or if I should just give up. I know most addicts have to hit bottom first, which he is close. I just dont have the energy to care anymore. What should I do, everyone tells me to leave but I am affraid if I do he will give up on his self. HELP!!!!

How can I help the father of my children and the love of my life kick his cocaine addiction?

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